An angry coach can be a frightful experience for anyone, especially young children. Knowing how to deal with one is a tool every parent should possess.
Dealing with an angry coach is extremely difficult and often impossible. When a person is full of anger they will not listen to any sort of reason. Because of this, sometimes it is best to just shield your child and let the coach blow off steam. When the situation settles down then address the situation.
Step2
The most important thing a person can do is avoid fueling the fire. When an angry coach is ranting and raving, don't confront them directly as this will only fuel the rage. Attempt to settle the person down by using words that appear sympathetic to their side. Do not condemn at this time. Later as the situation settles down, talk to them about their behavior.
Step3
Never, never violate the angry coach's space, unless physical violence is feared. When raged any move that may be seen as a physical threat will only esculate the situation. Stay back from the coach, do not push him/her or attempt to restrain, such acts will only anger the individual more.
Step4
When the situation has cooled down, slowly address the situation. Do not come out firing, work your way into it, find out why he/she was so angry and find some area of agreement. This will set the stage for noting that perhaps the coach was correct, but their reaction was off base.
Step5
With step 4 in place, begin planting the seed that the behavior accomplished nothing. Note that many parents were uncomfortable with the tirade and in the end it only hurt the team. This can be a difficult step, so make sure that the moment has passed and emotions have cooled down before addressing. Also, don't preach, it is very likely the coach is aware that their behavior was wrong.
Step6
Finally, if the situation arises again do not hesitate to either remove your child from the team or speak with the league commissioner about the coach's behavior.
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