How to win her back at last
Winning her back can be a challenge. But, what if you know she's the one? Being persistent, but not possessive, will help your win her back. And, becoming a better person for yourself and for her will make her want you, too.
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Instructions
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Never obsess or be possessive. You must be patient when trying to win her back. Analyze what went wrong and how you can win her back. Create a plan of action and in the meantime, better your life.
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Think of what went wrong and how you can improve as a person and as a boyfriend. What were her reasons for letting you go? Why did you break up?
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As time passes and as you've improved your personal life, get in touch with her in a friendly manner. Tell her how you've improved your life (possibly got a new job or paid off debt or some sort of personal accomplishment). Tell her you are still interested in her and see if there is a chance of getting back together.
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Make a list of all the things you love about her and she the list with her. Remember important things in her life--her birthday, for instance. Send her flower or chocolate or something she loves (a gift card for coffee, perhaps). Drop little signs of continued affection but distance them out enough so that you don't seem obsessed.
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Start to communicate again. Share your feelings and see if they are mutual. At this point, you've done everything to impress her and win her back. Now it is her turn to show that she feels that same way.
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Tips & Warnings
Be patient and be yourself.
Give yourself some distance but check in occasionally to see how she is doing.
Send her a nice gift or treat to show her that you care.
