How to tell your best friend her boyfriend is breaking up with her to go out with you

One of the the most important rule between best friends is to never date a friend's ex. Somehow people end up breaking this rule and wind up putting their friendship in danger. Read these steps on how to break it down to your friend that her man is looking for a brighter future with you.

Instructions

1. First of all, rethink your decision before making the relationship with your friend's boyfriend official. Think back on the good memories and years you've spent with your friend and ask yourself if a guy is really worth breaking a great friendship apart. Or put yourself in her shoes and imagine what if your girlfriend did the same to you? How would you feel? If you are really sure this guy is the real deal and isn't a flake, just remember it will change things forever.

2. Choosing a best friend or her boyfriend is very difficult, especially if you have love for them both. If your emotions are running high with her partner and you would not mind jeopardizing the friendship, try to manipulate the situation by telling her she can do better with someone else. Give her valid reasons why this should be true and think of the things she'd tell you of the flaws he has. If there were ongoing problems in their relationship, remind her of what the future will be like if they stayed together. Probably she will think the whole relationship over and it could somewhat ease the hurt before giving her the bad news.

3. If you finally have the courage to come clean with your friend that her boyfriend is leaving her for you, be honest and let her know that the feelings you have for one another are too strong to resist. Remind her of what a great friend she is and let her know that love comes in the most unexpected ways and you never knew anything like this would happen. She might want to know if her boyfriend ever cheated on her with you. If so, admit it, but if not, she should know the feelings were always there but you never acted on them.

4. Now that you finally come clean, you can finally say your new boyfriend is all yours now the burden of telling has been lifted from your shoulders.

Tips & Warnings

• Realize that your friend will not only be devastated but feel betrayed by you and your boyfriend.

• <br>There is a very slim chance that your friendship will never recover, so accept it and move on.

• <br>There is a possibility that your friend will never forgive at all and she will considered you anything but a true friend.

• Any respectful guy will break up with his girlfriend face to face. If the guy left his girlfriend for someone else, most likely he will do the same to you so remember, karma does comes around.

• <br>Do not hang around your soon to be ex-friend friends (if they're mutual) because people talk and you will instantly get a bad reputation.