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How to Give a Time-Out to a Toddler

By Martha Edens, eHow Editor
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Giving a time-out to a toddler is an effective way to control behavior without resorting to physical methods of discipline. Time-out provides a toddler (and the parent) a chance to calm down and then address the situation before it gets out of control.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Egg timer
  1. Step 1

    Designate a time-out location. This location can be a chair, rug, corner of a room; basically any where is fine as long as it is away from any action, noise or activity.

  2. Step 2

    Use a calm voice to explain to the child in as few words as possible why they are being put in time out. For example, if the child bites you, you should say "No biting Mommy," then calmly place the toddler in the designated time out spot and walk away.

  3. Step 3

    Set the egg timer for the amount of time you feel is necessary to control the situation. A general rule is 1 minute for each year of your toddler's age. It is best if the time is counted only after the child stops having a tantrum.

  4. Step 4

    Have the toddler tell you why they had to sit in time out after his "stint" is over.

  5. Step 5

    Receive an apology. The toddler should tell you they are sorry for what they did.

  6. Step 6

    Hug your toddler.

  7. Step 7

    Repeat the same series of steps with each instance of misbehavior. Consistency is the key for making time-out an effective method of discipline.

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