How to Add Quantum Tantra Into Your Sex Life

Everyone is looking for ways to add a little something to their sex life. Tantra is a way to accomplish that goal. Quantum Tantra is bringing Western Alchemy and Eastern Tantra together as one. Alchemy is based on the notion of chemistry which the mind conjures up and the physical helps bring to a higher intensity. Quantum Tantra is weaving the two methods into a Tantra-inspired style of being physical with liberating thoughts.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

1. Add all the senses into your sex life--sight, smell, touch, taste, hearing and thoughts. Most of all, don’t be afraid to use them all at one time. Toys, fruit, soft dirty-talk--all of these can help.

2. Become less inhibited. Be free with your thoughts about sex. If you are with a trusting partner, then you are already there. Enjoy his thoughts with an open ear and he will do the same for you. This will bring you closer.

3. The physical can be changed from the old routines by simply changing the order and positions of how you have sex. The letting go of control by one partner that is always in control will help take you to the Western Alchemy side of Quantum Tantra. You might want to try adding pillows to help in those new positions!

4. Remember, the mind side is just as important as the physical side. Try games like "kiss me on the neck twice if you like what I am trying." This will help ease the dislike of talking while having sex. You are still communication and not interrupting the physical mood.

5. Don’t be afraid to add knowledge to your sex life before you become physical. You are actually on your way by reading this article. Don’t be afraid to say, “Hey, I found this article, or book that I want you to read.”

6. Some of the advance methods of Quantum Tantra are to reverse the male and female roles in the lovemaking process. This is an advance method, since you need to know the other person's boundaries and known when to not step over them. You should communicate with each other before practicing this step.

[eleusis]

on 6/24/2009 Simpleton?!! We *love* simple! Check out http://tantraforbobos-intro.blogspot.com for more foolish ideas! Bedsheets are a great start! Too bad we haven't yet developed something like 'mirror sheets' - you know, satiny, but with that "Roomful of Mirrors" effect. xo leu

[esmendelsohn]

on 8/13/2008 Call me a simpleton, but an easy way to break the ice in this situation is to do something as mindless as change the sheets...yep, get yourselves some silky sheets or another texture just to change the feel of the bed and build from there. Once your bed has been transformed maybe you can be transformed. Anything you desire can be achieved even if it is way out of your partner's comfort zone. Meet in the middle and easy your way through.