How to talk to a crush casually

When you really, really like someone, it is almost impossible to stay cool when talking to them, no matter what. But nothing comes off more attractive then confidence, so speaking to your crush casually is absolutely the way to go.

Instructions

1. When you see your crush, take a few deep breaths to calm down. A few sips of water will help this as well.

2. Take a peek in a mirror to make sure you are comfortable with the way you look.

3. Wait for your crush to either be alone or within a group of people you are good friends with before approaching.

4. Greet your crush with the same enthusiasm you would to greet a good friend. Ask them how they are and make sure you sound interested.

5. As you talk to your crush, make sure you are still breathing deeply through your nose to maintain calm.

6. Each time you speak, count to one in your head before actually saying anything. This will make sure that your tone is steady and that you speak slowly and calmly.

7. Keep a paper clip or rubber band in your hand to play with. This tiny trick reduces nervousness and gives your hands something to do.

8. Run you hands in your hair if you begin to feel nervous. This naturally calms your body and looks cute as well.

9. Continue the rest of the conversation normally and you will come off as calm and casual.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't get caught up on how you sound while talking. We all think we sound weird when talking to crushes and no one else ever notices.

• If you feel yourself start to panic, say that you need to meet someone and get out of the conversation as quick as you can.