Choose your budget with your partner than go from there. Decide whether its going to be a church wedding or a garden wedding. Church wedding you will have to take some classes and a retreat. Garden wedding you will need a permit so call your state's permit department.
Step2
Pick your maid of honor carefully make sure its some one reliable and trustworthy that is going to actually show up. Go with her and your mother to pick out your dress you don't need a crowd just those two people see your so special every one else will just have to wit till the big day. Choose your braids maid and take them to get fitted for the dress you chose for them (don't make it too nice, Remember everyone's eyes should be on you)
Step3
Decide where the reception is going to be in a house or hall. If in a house you have to have decorations set up the day before for the big day , also arrangements two days before and ,where the cake is going to be the guest and excetra.If in a hall get ready to waste money on plates , bar chairs , service and the whole nine yard, but if you got it spend it honey. Decide what kind of food you want and cake months before. Send out invitations a month before and decide where you want to go on your honeymoon a month or months before. Make sure your husband to be s on top of his boys and tuxedos. choose your flowers a month before or months if you like.
Tips & Warnings
CONGRATULATIONS and all the best wishes to you and your marriage.
Get a good photographer and limo service that you feel comfortable with.
Remember its your day don't worry to much about the guest.