How to Romance Yourself With Lingerie

Romancing yourself is a multi-step process that ends with putting lingerie on and appreciating yourself for how amazing you really are. By taking the time to relax and unwind, allowing yourself your favorite scents and a warm bath, you acknowledge your needs and create an environment for romance. Slipping on your lingerie has never felt so good.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Pick out a piece of lingerie piece at your favorite store. The lingerie should be comfortable, suit your tastes in fabric and color, and make you feel sexy, fun and free. Spend some time making sure you get just the right one. Performing the rest of the steps on the same day will take away the stress that comes with shopping.
2. Light a candle or a few, whatever makes you feel comfortable. Candles offer a warm glow that creates an environment for romance. Lighting a candle whenever you want to appreciate yourself or help yourself slow down is a great ritual to work into your life.
3. Draw a warm bubble bath. Add minerals and oils with rich, sensual scents. A bubble bath can help melt away the stress and get you focused on how your entire body is feeling.
4. Remove all unwanted hair while bathing and perform any other grooming that you feel past due on. You don't need to wash your hair; in fact, it's better if you don't because then you won't feel the need to dry and style it when you get out.
5. Put on your favorite lotion or oil. Massage your body gently as you apply the lotion to every area. Take your time and appreciate yourself for exactly how you are.
6. Slip into your lingerie. By now you should be feeling totally sexy and refreshed. Make any adjustments to the straps so that your bust line is displayed exactly how you like it.
7. Revel for just a lingering moment in the mirror before you step into the bedroom. Notice how good you look and how great you feel.