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Step 1
Watch her from afar, if possible, before engaging her in conversation. If she appears to be working the room, weaving in and out of conversations as she loses interest in the men approaching her, watch out. A woman with a genuine heart will be genuinely engaged in the people around her.
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Step 2
Take note of her first set of questions to you. Sometimes gold-diggers are sneaky about leading the conversation to their end goal. If you find yourself divulging your salary, the existence of your beach house or your car's year, make and model, you're in bad shape. Keep close tabs on your tongue. If she keeps prying, you know she's digging for your gold.
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Step 3
Keep yourself in check. It's easy to be distracted by beauty, and if you're attracted to the supermodel type, there's plenty of distraction. Look beyond the mask and begin trying to find out who this person really is.
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Step 4
Notice the way she dresses and brings attention to herself. Beautiful people who have good hearts don't feel the need to have the spotlight on them, wear gallons of makeup or bling their wardrobe out to attract the like-minded. If she's putting a lot of effort into her appearance, this is a warning sign that there's more going on than meets the eye. You may have just met a gold-digger.
