How to Add Romance to Your Sex Life

In marriage and long-term relationships, the sex can be great, but you can still feel like something is missing from your sex life. A lot of times this means that the romance has gone out of your relationship. Improve the amount of romance in your relationship, as it relates to sex, and watch your whole relationship improve.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Create fun romance with a sex coupon book that gives the bearer a desired sex act after something romantic happens. For example, your coupon could read, "This coupon entitles you to receive oral sex after a picnic lunch in the park with wine and chocolate."
2. Make a romantic scavenger hunt, complete with small gifts and lots of intrigue. Leave a note for your partner that instructs them to meet you someplace at a certain time. Have a piece of jewelry or clothing you bought for them to wear next to the note. Greet them at the desired location with another note, and go from there.
3. Float rose petals in a hot bath, and light candles all around the tub. Have romantic music playing and a couple glasses of champagne. Wait in the tub for your partner to get home, and tell them to meet you in the bathroom, naked.
4. Give a sensual massage using hot oils or flavored oils. Keep it romantic by telling your partner how beautiful they are, how hot their body is, how they make you feel and why you love them.
5. Cuddle and talk without indicating that you want sex. Make the talk meaningful by finding out what's really been going on in her life. Talk about some memories you have of the two of you together and how you envision your future.
6. Take romance to the technological level by sending romantic text messages and emails. This is a good way to keep your sex life romantic when you both have busy jobs. Start your email or text out with romance and end it with sexual undertones. Keep this up throughout the day and your partner will be ready to ravish you when you get home.