How to Never Argue

Everyone has thoughts and ideas about how things should be. It's impossible to change another opinion with fights and arguments geared solely to promote your idea. Instead, never argue with anyone in any relationship. Both of you will be happier.

Instructions

1. Agree that each person has his own opinion, and they are entitled to it. Do not argue a fundamental right that everyone has. This does not mean you are agreeing with that opinion, only that you agree the other person has the right to have it.

2. Draw your opponent away from the argument they are starting. We all know people who argue just to argue or start fights. Simply smile and let that person know you have somewhere you must be and leave.

3. Save your opinion for another time. When asked, say you do not have enough information to form an opinion. For example, if the crowd you are with is arguing politics, and you say you are for a certain politician or policy, this could incite an argument.

4. Listen to the other person's opinion. Do not think about what you are going to say when it is your turn. If this is a hot issue, ask the other person to give you time to think about the issue before you jump in and answer.

5. Think about why you do or do not want this event to happen. Prepare a suitable answer and back up your answer with facts.

6. Approach the person you want to confront after you calm down, and think through the issue. Present your reasons calmly, and listen to the rebuttals.

7. Ask to continue the discussion after you have a chance to review the rebuttals. This is also a good way to temporarily withdraw and save fights from starting. After you revise your answers, approach the person again. Repeat Step 4-7 to never argue again.