How to Give Sexual Stimulation Through Sight

Visually excite your sexual partner by tuning in to the cultural images that create sexual stimulation. The images of sexuality in one culture may be different than the images of another culture. Adding in personal preference and using sight as an erotic element can pose a challenge. Discuss the issue with your partner to learn how to use sight as a stimulating part of your sex life.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Discover who your partner finds sexy. Ask about movie or television personalities to prevent discord. Encourage your partner to watch those celebrities on TV or in movies. Restrain any jealousy and watch and learn what elements your spouse is attracted to. Allow your partner to enjoy the sexual stimulation that comes from watching a sexy celebrity.
2. Attract your partner by choosing apparel they find attractive. The sight of a man in a suit turns some women's minds to the erotic, while others find a guy in shorts more interesting. Wear a short skirt or high heels if your partner finds it sexually stimulating, and enjoy the sight of him in a suit or work out clothes.
3. Wear sexy lingerie now and then. Choose the type of underwear you feel most comfortable in. The sight of a partner in beautiful underwear or a provocative bedroom outfit provides sexual stimulation for most men.
4. Select images that bring sexual thoughts to mind and place them around the house. Think of anything from condoms to flowers that reminds your partner of sex. Scatter the items around your bedroom or present them at dinner in a fun and humorous way. The sight of sexually charged items should turn your partner's thoughts to sexually related matters.
5. Consider watching sexually explicit videos or movies. Try and find a sexy movie that does not offend as an alternative. Enjoy the movie together, and use the sight of others to spark sexual stimulation in you and your partner.