By
eHow Relationships & Family Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Pay attention to the way your partner kisses. Much like other give and take in relationships, your partner may demonstrate to you with her own kissing style the way she would like to be kissed. If you often find your partner slowing her own kissing or kissing you more softly or firmly than you are kissing her, take that as a hint and give her some of her own technique. Chances are, she will respond to your subtle changes.
Step2
Consider the sloppiness of your kissing. If you find that you both need to wipe your faces after passionate kissing, you should concentrate on reducing the amount of saliva produced during your kiss. A nice long kiss should leave you moist but not dripping. Being a sloppy kisser is a turn-off, so evaluate your own personal level of spit swapping and scale it down if you are leaving him drenched.
Step3
Vary your technique. Especially if you are engaging in long make out sessions, you should vary your pressure, speed and movements as you kiss. Repeating the same motions with your mouth and tongue over and over again seems robotic and quickly becomes boring. Move with the flow of your kissing and allow your embrace to reflect your emotions as you kiss.
Step4
Experiment with kissing techniques such as nibbling or sucking on your partner's lips. This adds a little variety to your kisses.