How to Surprise Your Spouse

Surprising your spouse periodically helps keep the two of you close and connected, especially if you're both busy. A surprise doesn't have to be costly or elaborate; a simple love note, an unexpected visit at work or a single rose can do the trick.

Instructions

1. Write a love letter to express your feelings in your own words. Sure, you could just email your thoughts; but putting pen to paper gives your spouse a special something to hold, touch and read.

2. Make a romantic dinner. Send the kids to Grandma's house for a few hours and prepare a simple dinner that the two of you enjoy. Set the table with the good dishes and eat by candlelight.

3. Rent your spouse's favorite film and watch it together. This is a simple romantic idea that tells your spouse you've been thinking of her needs.

4. Go to your spouse's work and bring him lunch. Eat with him in the cafeteria and bring a bud vase and a single flower to set on the table. Even fast food can be romantic in the right setting.

5. Plan a night or weekend at a romantic bed and breakfast. Many offer packages for romantic weekends or for couples celebrating their anniversary.

6. Surprise your spouse with a couple's massage. The two of you can enjoy each other's company while relaxing and being pampered together.