How to Make a Boyfriend Hang out With Oneself More

It can be quite frustrating when you want to spend every waking moment with a new love interest, especially when they don't seem to feel the same amount of cling that you do. The trick is to make your boyfriend want to hang out with you on his own. Follow these steps to get the couple time you crave.

Instructions

1. Be flexible. If you want time with the man, you have to put yourself where he loves to be. Even if football games, hunting lodges, skateboard parks or slasher movies are not your idea of romantic locations, being open to spending time following his favorite pursuits scores big points with a guy. Learn to like or at least tolerate his favorite activities. If you muster up even the slightest enthusiasm for his sport or activity of choice, you automatically add to your time with him.

2. Use reverse psychology. Being overly gamey in a relationship is never a good idea, but boyfriends are typically simple creatures who might not be wise to the fact you are pulling one over on them. Sometimes asking to spend some time apart will make you appear mysterious and off limits, and men love the chase. Be careful, however, this plan could backfire and leave you with what you are trying to avoid: an evening with the TIVO and your cat.

3. Speak the truth. The opposite of step 2 is to tell your boyfriend exactly how you are feeling. This step works best on highly evolved men who can appreciate heartfelt and somewhat emotional confrontations. Simply tell your boyfriend how much you care about him, and that you are feeling the need to spend more time together simply hanging out. Flatter him a bit by telling him how much fun he is and how happy you are when you are together. If he truly cares about you he will take your feelings into consideration and at least make an effort to give you more quality time.

Tips & Warnings

• Never whine or cry to gain time with your boyfriend. To do so is to appear desperate and that is an unattractive quality for a guy.