How to Get a Guy to Love One Playing With His Abs

Your guy may have abs that rival Brad Pitt's, but that doesn't mean he likes you playing with them. You might notice that every time you reach for his stomach, he cringes and pulls away. His issue might be as simple as a poor body image. If you want your guy to love you playing with his abs, take things slow and let him know how you feel.

Instructions

1. Let him know just how great you think his abs are by telling him. The next time you start to get intimate, whisper in his ear what you find sexy about him.

2. Rub his sides, lower back and neck until he gets comfortable with you playing with his body. This helps him feel more relaxed and accustomed to the feel of your hands on his body.

3. Pull his shirt up a few inches at a time every time the two of you are together. After awhile he will begin to realize that you like what you see.

4. Tell him that you love his abs and would love to touch them. Your guy will start to feel more comfortable at the thought of you playing with his abs if he knows how you feel.

5. Play with his abs by softly covering his skin with light touches. As he gets comfortable with the touching, you can increase the strength of your touches.

Tips & Warnings

• Try letting him play with your abs and stomach to show him how fun it can be. If you let him play first, he might be more likely to let you play later.

• Don't expect to see results overnight. If your guy is really self-conscious about his body, trying to force him to like you playing with his abs can make him feel even more uncomfortable.