How to Discuss Places to Hang Out With New Friends

Most people are sociable and enjoy meeting new people. However, discussing what to do with a group of new friends can present certain challenges. Some people prefer high-energy activities, whereas others like to take it easy. Before suggesting a hang-out spot, you might need to use a little discernment.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Take the initiative. Some people think twice before showing initiative. However, every group needs a leader. If your group of friends lacks a voice, make a suggestion.
2. Allow others to take the lead. Leadership is a good quality. Yet, it's important to step back and let others assume the leadership role sometimes.
3. Communicate with your new friends, rather than make plans for the entire group. You may want to see a movie, whereas the group wants to dine out. Be flexible so everyone can have a good time.
4. Observe the group before suggesting a hang out spot. Parties and clubs are perfect for upbeat people. However, your low-key friends may prefer a different type of activity.
5. Stay calm and go with the flow. It's normal for a group of new friends to disagree on a place to hang out. However, if you want to keep your new friends, be open to compromise.
6. Show your friends respect. The group may not like your suggestion. In fact, they may decide on a completely different activity. Rather than whine and pout, act your age and have a good time. Friendship and cooperation go hand-in-hand.