How to Get Guys to Come up to Oneself

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Whether you are hanging out at the mall, a party, or at school, it may be your mission to get some guys to come up to you. If you are looking for attention and are in need of meeting some new guys, you and your friends can do a couple things to get the guys to walk over to you so that you don't have to make the first move.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Step1
Make obvious eye contact with the guys that you want to approach you. Be sure to send some flirty eye action their way and bat those lashes. Maintain the eye contact until the guys decide to come over to you. If you look at them long enough, they may feel like you have to tell them something.
Step2
Drop all of your books and items on the floor. While you are doing this purposefully, don't make yourself look like a fool. Do this in a real casual manner and make sure that the guys see you drop the things. If they are true gentlemen, they will come to help you.
Step3
Ask your friend to go across the room beyond the group of guys. When she is there, wave to her and smile a lot. The group of guys may think that you are waving and smiling at them and will come up to you to say hello.
Step4
Say hello to the group of guys directly. After they say hello back, try to initiate an interesting conversation. Ask about a party that is being thrown this weekend to see if they are going.
Step5
Compliment the guys on their style or a job well done. If you just throw out a nice comment, hopefully they will come over to you to thank you and return a nice compliment or comment.

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