How to Flirt

Do you want to be the one that gets noticed? You can enhance your chances of winning the dating game by learning five little secrets that will make people take notice and come running!

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• Five little secrets to bring 'em running!

1. Be The Center of Attention.
   
   Where should you be for the highest impact and the greatest number of interested cuties? Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up and moving around a bit. If you're in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of the corners on the bar. Not only will you meet more people, but, bartenders tend to gravitate toward the corners as well. When people approach the bar to get a drink, you will be right there for an interesting conversation!
2. Lure Them With Color.
   
   Women tend to be more attracted to men wearing the color blue. Why would we be, you ask? Guys who frequently wear blue are considered stable, faithful, constant, and always there. The blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship -- someone who's dependable, monogamous and can match his own clothes!
   
   And what about the ladies? Women should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. The color is very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow, and it projects a little vulnerability which brings out something protective in men.
3. Body Talk That Will Help You Reel 'Em In.
   
   For women, you want to make yourself an approachable, safe, target, but how do you do that? Don't take up a lot of space. You can be a strong woman, but you want to make sure that people are not intimidated to come over and talk to you. To be approachable, you should stand with your feet about six inches apart. You want to have room for someone to approach you. The nod and head tilt are good moves to show a person that you are listening to them while they are talking.
   
   For men, appearing more dominant effectively draws the attraction of women. To attract women, men should stand with their feet 6-10 inches apart, and toes pointing outward. Feel free to take up some space. For men who are victims of the "nice guy" image, or who appear to be too submissive to attract women, they should try wearing bulkier or more conservative hairstyles or clothing. Hold your head up, speed up your speech and gestures to be more assertive.
   Both sexes should avoid folding their arms, chewing on ice, gum, or fingernails. This type of body language shows signs that you are frustrated or have a lot of anxiety which is very unattractive.
4. The Power Behind A Smile.
   
   One of the most important things that you can do is SMILE. Not only does it make you look more attractive, it makes you look more approachable. Your smile should not be a faked forced smile. It should be your normal, "I'm happy to be here and I'm having a good time" smile.
5. Tempt Them With Your Sensual Scent.
   
   Studies show that men associate the scents of cinnamon and vanilla with love. To make the scents work for you, try baking some ready-made cinnamon rolls about an hour before your date arrives(No kidding, this really works!), or, wear a cinnamon-vanilla scented perfume (there's a fabulous vanilla perfume called "Dulce Vanilla" that you can try ). Aroma therapy experts have long-believed cinnamon to be an aphrodisiac. Wearing cinnamon/vanilla blends increases the presence of pheromone-like substances and dramatically increases attraction.
   
   What is the scent of a woman? Women, according to a recent study, are attracted to a black licorice scent. So, be sure to pick up licorice or Good 'n Plenty at the theater snack bar. And, if you're at a club and happen to spill a little Jaggermeister on your shirt, don't worry about the stain, just consider it your lucky night!