How to Plan the Perfect Play Date (Toddlers and Preschoolers)

Are you the parent of a toddler or a preschooler who would like to plan a play date soon? If this is the first “official,” play date that you are planning, you may be looking for some tips. If that is the case, please continue reading on.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• Snacks and Drinks
• Fun Games
• A Play Date Friend

1. Find a Play Date Friend
   
   For many parents, this is the hardest step of planning a play date. If your child is in preschool or daycare, ask other parents if their children would be interested in coming over for play date. Your co-workers with children and other members of your community can also be asked.
2. Clean and Child Proof Your Home
   
   Having a clean and child proofed home is important, especially when hosting a first ever play date. For first play dates, parents often want to attend or at least view your home. You want them to get a good impression and know that their child will be safe in your care.
   
   As for the child proofing, even steps should be taken to protect toddlers and preschoolers. Make sure that all stairways are clear, bright, and noticeable. If you have a pool, be sure to keep the gate closed and locked.
3. Have Snacks and Drinks on Hand
   
   While you may not need to buy snacks and drinks just for your child’s play date, it is ideal to have a wide range of snacks and drinks on hand. This is because you may not know what the other child likes to eat. In fact, it may be a good idea to ask about likes, dislikes, and allergies.
4. Choose Age Appropriate Activities
   
   Choosing age appropriate activities is much easier when the child who is coming over for a play date is around the same age of your child. Age appropriate activities are not only important for safety, but they often mean less frustration and a better time.
5. Plan Fun Indoor Activities
   
   Even if you intend to have your child and their play date play outside, it is still a good idea to have a number of activities on hand for indoors. Your child and their play date may get bored with playing outside or the weather may take a turn for the worse. To help ensure that your child’s play date has a good time and wants to come back, always have a backup plan.
6. Plan Fun Outdoor Activities
   
   If you have a backyard, always have a number of outdoor activities on hand for your child’s play date. It is important to remember that some children enjoy spending most of their time outside, even if your child doesn’t. Remember to choose age appropriate activities. Activities, like catch and soccer, are ideal for all toddlers and preschoolers.
7. Be Sure to Extend Another Invitation
   
   When your child’s play date is getting ready to leave, be sure to mention to his or her parents that you would like to do this again.

Tips & Warnings

• If the parents are leaving their child at your home, be sure to get all important information, including an emergency contact number.