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How to Give A Good Hand Job

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Over the top hand job technique
Over the top hand job technique

Do you know how to give a good hand job to your man? Here's one of my favorite hand job techniques that will totally rev his engine. It's called the "Over the Top" hand job technique, but I have to warn you, you should only use this one if you want to drive him insane in the sack!

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Lubrication
  1. Step 1

    To begin this technique, you'll need your partner's penis to be semi- or fully erect.

  2. Step 2

    Start by applying plenty of lubricant to both hands. Warm your hands by rubbing them together.

  3. Step 3

    Bend your fingers, and touch your thumb to your index finger, as though you are holding a glass. Now, twist your wrist so that the thumb and index finger are at the bottom of the hand, instead of the top.

  4. Step 4

    Sitting or kneeling in front of your partner, slip his penis through the hole you are making with the hand and move down until you are encircling the base of the penis.

  5. Step 5

    At this time, hold and squeeze gently to make sure you have a firm grip on him.

  6. Step 6

    Now, pull the hand up towards the head of the penis.

  7. Step 7

    When you reach the head, give a slight twist, as though you were opening the lid of a jar. Be sure that you don't do this movement until you reach the head. Also, you want your hand to slide sideways along the head. Don't twist the penis itself.

  8. Step 8

    Immediately after the twist, cup your palm over the head of the penis, rotating your hand as though you are smoothing the glans down. At this point, your hand should fall right back around the penis, with the thumb and index finger circle at the top this time, instead of at the bottom.

  9. Step 9

    Using the same hand, stroke downwards until you reach the base of the penis again.

  10. Step 10

    At this point, you want to place you other hand immediately above the first hand. The thumb and index of the second hand should be at the bottom (so that they connect with the thumb and index finger of the first hand.)

  11. Step 11

    Now, repeat the upward stroke, twist, and rotation over the glans with that second, upper hand. As you stroke down, remove the lower hand, and bring the upper one down to the base of the penis.

  12. Step 12

    Place your original hand above the second one (thumb and index finger side down) and repeat the movement.

Tips & Warnings
  • What you want to achieve is a smooth, continuous up and down movement, using your two hands in succession. As I mentioned before, it's best to practice this technique on a dildo or cucumber before you are faced with a real partner. It's a bit tricky to get the timing down on this motion, so practice, practice, practice!

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lovesslave said

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on 6/19/2009 I wish more women would learn techniques like this, even on nights they have their head-aches or cycle they could spend five minutes and help relieve the stress in their man's life, and contribute to a much happier relationship !!! I've never experienced this particular technique but it sounds like with a little lubricant it would be amazing and help me get right to sleep holding my lady after a very stressful day with absolutely no problems !!!

*** "Women really could gain a large advantage in life if they just got more of a handle on things." ;)
There are many other techniques that work just as well and achieve the same result, the only problem is women no longer take the time to learn to keep their man happy: you'd think it would be 5 min. well spent !!!

kdpgrahi said

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on 6/13/2009 Please describe how to use libricants

stevemar2 said

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on 5/9/2009 I want a cute girl to try this out on me. I could use a hand job...and a foot job.

cblack said

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on 3/14/2009 That sounds really complicated.

DMiller48 said

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on 7/15/2008 I got an erection just reading your technique and home alone going to do it to myself!!! WOW

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