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Step 1
List the things you fight about, whether it be friends, curfew, clothes or another issue. A list breaks down the issues that irritate your parents. Put yourself in their shoes, and consider their point of view.
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Step 2
Spend quality time together. You probably spend a lot of time with friends and neglect your parents. It isn't easy for parents to express that they feel left out. Plan to spend a few hours (or an entire day) with your parents each week. Go to the park, watch a movie or play a game.
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Step 3
Make a recommendation. You may feel as though the rules are too strict. However, ignoring house rules complicates the situation, and makes it impossible to get along with your parents. Instead, ask your parents to modify the house rules. Be prepared to present your case.
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Step 4
Show respect. Being respectful is a surefire way to get parents off your back. The esteem you show reveals your maturity level. In the end, your parents may loosen their grip and grant extra privileges.
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Step 5
Listen to your parents. The authority to set and change house rules lies with your parents. Regardless of whether the rules are fair, you're obligated to obey them--especially if you want to get along with your parents.
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Step 6
Communicate with your parents, which is the best way to get them out of your face. Too often, parents establish ground rules, teens rebel and neither party is open to discuss the issues. Open communication accomplishes a lot--you and your parents can chat, relate and compromise in an open atmosphere.
