How to Cope When a Crush is Seeing Another Guy

When you become infatuated with someone, it is definitely hard to move on if she is seeing someone else. You may daydream, wonder, hope and fantasize about your crush night and day. While you may believe that you are the one for your crush, you need to deal with the fact that she is seeing someone else. Follow these steps to cope when your crush is seeing another guy.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Show up at events that your crush and her new guy are at. If she sees you making eye contact with her, she may begin to realize that you are smitten with her. Make it a point to make conversation with her at the events just to be friendly.
2. Make a list of pros and cons with reasons why you would or would not be compatible with your crush. Attempt to make your cons list longer so that you can cope with the fact that your crush is seeing another guy.
3. Wait out her new relationship. Time will only tell if your crush and her new boyfriend will hit it off. If you wait and they split up soon, you can come into the picture as a friend and hopefully win over her heart.
4. Approach your crush and let her know how you feel. This will be a big risk. Because she is already involved with someone else, she may reject you. On the other hand, she may be just in love with you as you are with her, and she was afraid to approach you.
5. Remind yourself that she is happy. If you see your crush with her new guy and they seem very happy, let her go. You may miss your chance of meeting other girls if you don't let her go.