How to Get a Guy to Like You if You are a Big Girl

Getting a guy to like you when you're a "big girl" is no big deal providing that you have the right attitude. The main reason that some people aren't attracted to others is because of the signals that they give off. Overcome any issues and you'll get a guy in no time.

Instructions

1. Increase your confidence by taking in all the compliments about you and looking for the positive instead of the negative. It's a fact that confident, happy people are much more fun and interesting to be around than those who aren't. Make yourself one of the bright sunny people that make others smile instead of frown.

2. Get yourself a makeover to improve your look and how you feel about yourself. Many "big" girls claim to find it harder to dress and shop for clothes. Do some research and find out what best suits your body shape and style. The perfect fit will make you feel more comfortable and confident. This will show on the outside, making you more attractive to the guys.

3. Widen your search for the right guy and don't just look at one "type" or particular person. Different guys like different personalities, looks and body shapes just like girls, so don't limit yourself and go after the one person who isn't suited to you or prefers a different kind of person.

4. Let the guys come to you. Appearing desperate or needy is an obvious "no no" for anyone, no matter what you look like. Put your quest for a guy to the back of your mind and concentrate on doing things that make you happy, such as hanging out with your friends or getting involved with an activities group. When you aren't trying to attract a guy but just being yourself, you'll be more likely to find that someone special.