How to Get a Guy to Break up With His Girlfriend
Generally speaking, it's usually best to stay out of other people's relationships. However, there are times when a guy's partner clearly isn't right for him. He may be unhappy, dependent or even abused, but he'd definitely benefit from breaking up and moving on. If you know a guy in a bad relationship, here are some ways to get him to break things off with his girlfriend and find love somewhere else.
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Strengthen your relationship as friends. Before you can offer him meaningful advice, you'll need to get to know him as well as you can.
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Be understanding and listen to his problems. If he doesn't want to open up about the relationship right away, be patient and wait until he's comfortable talking about it.
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Point out the negative things his girlfriend does, but do it in a positive way. Instead of being openly critical, lightly suggest how things in the relationship should be, or how they'd be different if he were dating you.
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Lead him to resources that list good reasons to end a relationship. Most guys aren't sensitive enough to what their partners do to know when she's crossed the line.
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Always tell the truth. People are bound to find out when you're lying, and it'll only make it harder for your guy to trust you.
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Make yourself available to talk anytime your guy wants. Building a stronger bond between the two of you is the best way to make him see the flaws in his current relationship.
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to the author of this article: you shouldn't write things like this, to the publishers: why would you publish an article like this?
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I tried this once...it didn't work. I wasn't even trying to break them up, but to warn him she was flirting with all his friends and had sex with another man in a public bathroom. Not saying it wouldn't for another guy, but he broke things off with me, called me a liar, and turned other people against me too.
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I like a guy & his girlfriend is acting like the guy in their relationship and she grabs his hand first & I don't like that! I really like him! Comments?
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custera
Oct 28, 2010
you know most guys say that they wanna do any and everything with you , hun i'm telling you if he says he loves his girl friend and he says he likes you all he wants is a rebound girl that will do stuff with him that his girl won't and think about it if they were to break up what makes you think that he won't so the same thing to you behind your back that he's doing to his supposidy girlfriend behind her back . the thing is he just wants his cake and eat it to but he cant have that that would make him a cheater and i would seriously just leave him alone because chances are he has probably did this to a few other girls besides you. Just think that you can do better and forget about this jerk... always amber -
Erika Kent
Oct 11, 2010
Well the guys that im trying too get.. he done said that he would do anything and everything with me. He don't wanna break up with his girlfriend.. because he love's her. But i really like him. So what would i do now?
