By
eHow Relationships & Family Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Find a quiet place to rest and chat between songs. Your conversation won't get far if you can't even hear what each other are saying, so do your best to find a reasonably secluded spot.
Step2
Take time to talk about whatever interests your guy. If you know he's in a club or on a sports team, ask him how the season's going. If you don't know anything about him, try to get him to talk about his interests and hobbies.
Step3
See what kind of songs he likes to dance to. If he's shy, gently prod him to get out on the floor and show off his moves. Learning what music he likes gives you important clues about his personality.
Step4
Make eye contact with your boy from across the room and slowly move in to ask him to dance. You don't need to dance with him on every song, but make your presence known over the course of the evening.
Step5
Stay relaxed and have fun. The best way to get to know other people is by being yourself and exuding as much self confidence as you can.