How to Know if a Girlfriend is Ready to Kiss

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Timing is everything. If you're uncertain whether your girlfriend is ready to kiss you or not just wait a little longer before you make any moves. Look for signs by reading her body language or hold off until the answer is perfectly clear and the kiss will be perfect.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy
Step1
Ask your girlfriend in a very sweet way if she minds if you kiss her. Respect her wishes though if she says she's not ready.
Step2
Listen closely for verbal clues. If your girlfriend is practically spelling out kiss me by the way she hints to you, then go for it; she's ready.
Step3
Touch her face and hair softly to see if she moves closer to you. If she does, it's a possible sign of readiness for a kiss.
Step4
Look into her eyes. Soft, flirty eyes might be a tell-tale sign that your girlfriend is ready to kiss you.
Step5
Hold her closely against your body. Speak to her in a way that she can feel your breath on her face. If your eyes lock at this moment, your lips might too.
Step6
Search for her past. Find out what kind of guys she has dated before and what her experiences were with them. Learn what wrong in those relationships and why they broke up. This could tell you where she is coming from and what she expects.
Step7
Wait for her to make the first move. Your girlfriend might surprise you with a kiss that will blow you away. Be patient in the meantime and enjoy your time together.

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on 4/24/2008 3 and 4 are right but the message given in this article is terrible....you do not ask if you can kiss her nor do you wait for her to make the move. You will see indicators that she wants to be kissed such as her playing with her hair, tilting her head, moving her face in closer, and looking at your lips during conversation.

You want to be the dominant one making the move. If you see that she is compliant with you touching her face and/or hair then she will want you to take it up a notch towards kissing.

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