Step1
Believe in yourself. Believe that you can quit. Think about
some of the hardest things you have done in your life and
realize that you are determined to quit smoking. It's up to you.
Step2
After reading this, feel free to sit down and come up with your own plan, customized to your personality and way of doing things. Create
you own plan for quitting.
Step3
Write down why you want to quit: live longer, feel better, for your family, save money, smell better, find a mate more easily, etc. You know what's bad about smoking and you know what you'll get by quitting. Put it on paper and read it everyday.
Step4
Ask your family and friends to support your decision to quit.
Ask them to be completely supportive and non-judgmental. Let
them know ahead of time that you will probably be irritable and
even irrational while you withdraw from smoking.
Step5
Set a quitting date. Decide what day you will crush your cigarettes forever. Write it down. Plan for it. Prepare your mind for literally the "first day of the rest of your life". You might even hold a small ceremony when you smoke your last cigarette, or on the morning of the quit date.
Step6
Talk with your doctor about quitting. Support and guidance from a physician is a proven way to better your chances of quitting.
Step7
Begin an exercise program. Exercise is simply incompatible
with smoking. Exercise relieves stress and helps your body
recover from years of damage from cigarettes. If necessary,
start SLOW, with a short walk once or twice per day. Build up to
30 to 40 minutes of rigorous activity, 3 or 4 times per week. Rule of thumb here, however, consult your physician before beginning any exercise program.
Step8
Do some deep breathing each day for 3 to 5 minutes. Breathe
in through your nose very slowly, hold the breath for a couple
seconds, and exhale very slowly through your mouth. Try doing
the breathing with your eyes closed and do the next step.
Step9
Visualize your way to becoming a smoke-free. While doing the deep breaths, you can close your eyes and begin to imagine yourself smoke-free. See yourself enjoying your physician advised exercise routine. See yourself turning down a cigarette that someone offers you. See yourself throwing all your cigarettes away. Be creative visualizing. Visualization works.
Step10
Cut back on cigarettes gradually. If you cut back gradually,
be sure to set a quit date on which you WILL quit. Ways to cut
back gradually may include: planning how many cigarettes you will actually smoke each day until your quit date, making the number you smoke smaller each day, changing brands so you don't enjoy smoking as much, giving your cigarettes to someone else so that you have to ask for them each time you want to smoke.
Step11
Find another smoker who is trying to quit, and help each
other with positive words. Also lending an ear when quitting
becomes difficult helps alot.
Step12
Have your teeth cleaned. Enjoy the way your teeth look and
feel. Plan to keep your teeth looking clean.
Step13
After you quit, plan to celebrate the milestones in your journey to becoming smoke-free. After two weeks of being smoke-free, maybe you can see a movie. After a month, maybe go to a fancy restaurant. After three months, you might go for a long weekend to a favorite get-away. After six months, buy yourself something really nice. After a year, have a party for yourself. Invite your family and friends to your "anniversary" party and celebrate your new chance at a long, healthy life.
Step14
Drink lots of water. Water is very good for you anyway, and many
people don't drink enough. It will help flush the nicotine and
other chemicals out of your body, also it can help reduce
cravings by fulfilling any "oral desires" that you may have.
Step15
Learn what influences your desire for a cigarette, such as stress, the end of a meal, arrival at work, entering a bar, etc. Avoid these influences or come up with alternative ways to deal with the influences.
Step16
Find something to hold in your hand and mouth, to replace cigarettes. Consider drinking straws or smoking alternatives.
Step17
Write an inspirational song or poem about quitting, cigarettes, and what it means to you to quit. Read it everyday.
Step18
Keep a picture of your family or someone very important to
you with you at all times. On a piece of paper, write the words
"I'm quitting for myself and for you/them". Tape your
written message to the picture. Whenever you have the urge to
smoke, look at the picture and read the message.
Step19
Whenever you have a craving for a cigarette, instead of
lighting one up, write down your feelings or whatever is on your
mind. Keep this journal with you at all times.
Comments
writetruth said
on 5/24/2008 Great article and well written! I smoked for over 16 years - Awful habit!!! YUCK! It actually took me a few years to quit. The last year I was a "closet smoker." No one knew I still smoked - I only smoked at home under a vent. It was a pain and it worked. The last night I had a ceremony of sorts. I said goodbye to the cigarettes, had a couple, gave them to God, and torn the rest up. I quit in 1997. Just know it will be hard and painful - get tough - get ready for the pain - and - Just Do It. ~~ 5 Stars ~!~