Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
You may be tempted to call your ex girlfriend up and give her a long list of things that are wrong with her new boyfriend as soon as you find out she is dating again. Chances are good that if you start doing this she will quickly become annoyed and tune you out. Even if her new boyfriend has some serious flaws doing this will make you look immature and jealous, two things you can't be if you want her back. Your ex will probably be expecting this type of reaction from you and if you surprise her with maturity she will be more likely to continue to communicate with you and eventually take you back.
Step2
Many people choose to remain friends after a breakup especially if they were very close before the relationship of have a lot in common. If you and your ex girlfriend are still pretty friendly, this is a good thing, and when she calls you up to talk this is a clear indicator that she is at least interested in you as a friend. If her new boyfriend comes up in the conversation resist the urge to trash him and just listen. Politely listening and even offering some generic advice is the best way to show her that you are mature and worthy of being a friend and even future lover, again. If your ex girlfriend wants to talk you this is a good sign and shows that she trusts you and wants you in her life. One of the worst things you can do is ruin the friendship as well which will only push her farther away from you.
Step3
Even though it is wise to remain friends, constantly being at her beck and call is not a good idea. You want her to be able to miss you so it is a good idea to pick and choose when you are available to her. If you get involved with other things it will make her wonder what you are up to and it will also suggest that she is not the most important thing in your life anymore. When she realizes this chances are she will remember what it was like to be with you and want to have your attention back.
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Comments
HowToDating said
on 4/16/2008 Nice, short and simple and to the point. I wish I could trim down my ehows like this, sometimes i get too philosophical lol.
Anyway, 5 stars for you!