How to Attract Women - Guide for Men

Have you ever felt women just aren't attracted to you? Do you want to have more choice over the women you date? Do you find you just don't get enough opportunities to meet women, let alone date them? My article contains the solutions to all these problems and more.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

1. Get in shape – Being in shape is different for everyone. Some people are naturally leaner, but some just have a naturally higher body mass index. For a heavier person it can take massive dedication to become lean. Getting in shape doesn’t always mean dramatically changing your entire physique, but it definitely means not getting completely out of breath just by walking up a flight of stairs. Many women will happily date a guy with a belly, but not when they’re wheezing and gasping over a walk in the park. It can be hard to hold a conversation with someone who’s hyperventilating. It can reduce spontaneity. It makes a person less fun. And it can really hurt you were it counts: in your sexual performance. So you’ve got to get on an exercise program and at least build up a little stamina.
2. Look your best - Nobody ever gets the job by showing up in dirt stained coveralls and nappy, unwashed hair. Wooing a woman is surprisingly like applying for a job. Have you ever used a dating service? Your listing is like a resume, and if it doesn’t contain the necessary qualifications and buzz words, they’re not even going to call you in for the first date. This doesn’t mean you have to show up in a three piece suit every time you score a first date, but it does mean you have a better chance of impressing a girl by wearing clean clothes, appearing groomed and well kempt. A man has to look presentable or else why would they want to be seen in public with him.
3. Become an animal lover – One day when I was walking through the park with my friend I made an amazing revelation. He was walking his dog down the trail when a beautiful, dark haired woman came up and began commenting on his dog with admiration. I swear, she wouldn’t leave, they must have talked for around fifteen minutes. Her words were wasted on him because he’s married, but I swear if that were my dog, I would have brought her home with me that night. Women love pets almost as much as they love babies. Babies aren’t always that easy to get a hold of so we’re going to have to settle for pets to meet this requirement. We’re going to focus particularly on dogs in this case, because having a cat or a bird might score you some extra credit when you finally get them back to your pad, but a dog is going to boost you up the ladder anywhere in town. You’re best off with a real cute well-behaved or energetic, but not energetic enough to jump on their skirts type of dog. Or else a cute little lap dog that will get them within kissing range. Walking your dog is a great reason get out there in the park, the supermarket, or even a pet store. These are all places where your dog will be within eyeshot of plenty of ladies. You’re going to notice the women sighing, ogling, and talking in baby voices. This is an indication of a trancelike state where they’re most willing to please. In this mode they’re highly susceptible to suggestion. They’ll tell you just about anything, where they work, their phone number, where they live. You could practically find out what color panties they’re wearing.
4. Make sure you show her you’re happy to be there - Smile, show enthusiasm, get positive. Face it, you’re trying to sell yourself. Consider the last time you went in to buy a new TV or home appliance. What kind of salespeople did you deal with. Was your salesperson friendly or unfriendly? Did they give an impression of concern or indifference? How did it make you feel? The buying experience is always so much more enjoyable if we feel our salesperson genuinely cares about us. If they’re indifferent, we usually get the feeling they could care less and we don’t see the benefit of buying from them. If you seem like a positive person, the girl will leave with a positive feeling, and that can mean winning the battle. Leaving factors like deception and dishonesty out of the picture, you’ll find the best salesmen are positive, enthusiastic, and friendly. They give us a warm feeling, as if they could easily even be a friend. Sure, there are countless legends about jerks who seem to always get the woman of their choice, and many of the stories are true. What we aren’t often told is how they got that prize girlfriend. They often did it by showing their best side, putting a little charisma into the mix. Then once they’ve secured some investment into the relationship from the girl they begin to take advantage of the situation and milk it for what they can. Most women will put up with a lot to maintain a relationship they’ve invested some hard spent emotion into. Although, I’m always an advocate of respect and consideration.
5. Don’t let your mouth run away with you – Saying too little can make you seem boring. On the other hand, saying too much can be even worse. There are certain things we don’t want to talk about during the introduction process. When two people are learning about each other, they are looking for the good, but aren’t always ready for the bad aspects, or complex thoughts of that person. Negative thoughts, phobias, peeves, and abstract philosophical thoughts are usually disastrous on the first date, unless you hit it off particularly well and she steers the conversation in that direction. I’ll never forget the time when I went to a bar and had a pair of lesbians crowding around me and jumping in my lap. When it came time to getting to know me better, I uttered something philosophical and their jaws dropped. Neither of them said another word to me the rest of the time I was there. Another time, I met a gorgeous young lady at a party and we hit it off great. I had to leave early, but I was sure to get her email address before leaving, we corresponded a little bit and talked about ourselves, and I recall writing a sentence that was particularly transcendental. That blew it! She told my friend I was getting into some deep thoughts, and I never talked to her again. Try and stick to thoughts that aren’t complicated, or at least stick to something they understand. Even talking about sex is better than blowing it with some complex rhetoric. In fact, that brings us to my next point.
6. Don’t be afraid to bring up sexual subjects – Women love sexy men. Being sexy isn’t always about looking sexy. It’s often about having sexual thoughts and the willingness to express them. In all of my most fulfilling relationships sexual expression has come out early on. If they’re quickly put off, perhaps your concepts of a relationship don’t mesh anyway. Very few men will enter into a relationship without sexual gratification, and if that’s important to you sexual expression in the relationship has to begin somewhere. Most people have been in the presence of some man who seems to have a completely unabashed tongue when around women. Others seemed stunned and disapproving. Perhaps if you were in that situation you did too. But this kind of behavior unleashes powerful hormones in a woman that forces her to contemplate sexual thoughts, which can often lead to overt reciprocal sexual behavior.
7. Don’t be afraid to act – If you want to be her friend forever, then never take any action, but then you have to question what you are getting out of the friendship that you can’t get from your guy friends. If you want affection you have to be willing to take the initiative. Give some affection and hope she gives some back. If she doesn’t you’ll know she’s not ready for a relationship with you. Start small by touching her hands, her arms, or shoulders. Another good way is to give her little physical cues by touching her arm or touching her back. Everyone has seen the old Arnold Swartzenegger and Sylvester Stallone movies where the main character is constantly dragging the women around by the arm. Well, I don’t recommend being that aggressive, but touching is stimulation. If you want them to love you they have to get used to your touch.
8. Get out there and do it – No one ever got anywhere by sitting around and doing nothing. Join some dating services, get into some chat rooms, go to the park, go to the health club. Get out there and be seen!

Tips & Warnings

• Don't do anything to invite a sexual harassment suit.