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How to Have Great Sex

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Get ready for some great sex
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By ~ GreatSexCoach ~
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If you're a mature man or woman, chances are you have a good idea about how to have sex. Heck, you might even know how to have good sex! But rarely do men or women truly know how to have great sex. When I say great sex, I’m talking about the type of sex that makes both partners feel breathless, experience a deeper emotional connection, and have simultaneous orgasms!

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Prepare the bedroom for a session of lovemaking: Make sure you have towels, tissues, lubrication, and condoms readily available. Dim the lights, fire up some scented candles, and play some romantic music to set the mood.

  2. Step 2

    Blindfold foreplay: Have you and your partner wear a blindfold. This will enhance the sensations during sex

  3. Step 3

    Guys - foreplay foreplay foreplay! Take your time during this stage. You don't want to rush into sex right away.

  4. Step 4

    Give her an orgasm first. This is the trick to great sex. Give her an orgasm first through oral sex or G-spot stimulation, then procedure to penetrative sex.

  5. Step 5

    Have penetrative sex. Make sure you kiss to increase the feelings of intimacy. If you're not kissing, then, when applicable, maintain eye contact with her. It is this "gazing into each other’s eyes" that will give a strong feeling of connection (almost as though your souls are touching)

  6. Step 6

    Guys hold off as long as possible. The trick is to have her begin her orgasm, and then you can start to have yours!

  7. Step 7

    When you're both at the point of climax, gaze into each other’s eyes once again. Try not to look away until you both experience orgasms

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apexminder said

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on 4/15/2009 nice article, I just got inspire to write an article to compliment yours!!

zemzem82 said

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on 3/14/2009 great advice grrr!-zemzem.ecrater.com

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on 2/22/2009 Well written article. Thanks for the tips to having great sex. 5*

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on 2/4/2009 i love ittttttttt

bye about to go have sexx

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on 1/6/2009 stand her on her head--- and spin her like a top.. thats what my boyfriend likes.. :-)

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