How to Gain Insight Into a Shy Girl's Mind

Getting to know a shy girl is difficult in most cases. Gaining insight into her mind can help to give you an advantage over other guys because you will know exactly how she thinks. You can also figure out if she is interested in you.

Instructions

1. Talk to her. Listen carefully to what she says when she talks to you. Make sure that you pay attention for the hidden meaning behind what she says to you.

2. Correspond with her through email or letters. It may be easier for a shy girl to tell you things if she can write or type them. Face to face conversations may be difficult for her.

3. Pay attention to her actions. The old saying that actions speak louder than words is definitely true when you are trying to get to know a shy girl.

4. Learn what she likes and dislikes. Her likes and dislikes will give you some indication of the way she thinks. Make sure that you pay attention to the activities that she likes and the type of people that she befriends.

5. Spend as much time with her as possible. This will speed up the time it takes for you to get to know her. Use this time to build a solid friendship.

6. Make friends with some of her friends. You can do this by becoming friends with one of her friend's boyfriend. This will give you an extra reason to hang around her more often.

7. Be patient. It will take a shy girl a while to warm up to you. Once she warms up to you, gaining insight into her mind will come fairly easily.