How to Get a Child to Like Going to the Doctor

Establishing a good relationship between your child and his doctor is important, not only to alleviate any fears your child may have but also to instill a sense of confidence in him towards medical professionals. When your child is afraid of a doctor's visit, help him with these tips.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Assure your child that you will accompany him throughout his examination unless he asks you to leave. Children under 8 often want a parent in the room with them. When your child begins to mature, he may feel more comfortable if you step out of the room when he disrobes.
2. Tell your child the truth about the pain factor involved but don't talk about it excessively. Explain that an injection stings for a moment but that it will be over quickly.
3. Reassure your child that she has nothing to feel badly about when visiting the doctor. Children sometimes think an illness or condition is their fault. If your child has head lice, pinworms or is visiting the doctor for a condition like bedwetting, relieve any guilt she may feel by explaining how many other children have the same problems.
4. Demonstrate to a small child the likely procedure the doctor will use during the exam. Explain how the doctor will look into his mouth, ears and eyes by using a large spoon and pretending it is medical equipment. Make a game out of it so your child will be comfortable when the doctor exams him.
5. Explain the difference between "good touching" and "bad touching." Set your child's mind at ease that a doctor is only touching her body to make sure she is developing in the correct manner.
6. Choose a child-friendly doctor. A physician that takes the time to smile and talk to your child instead of talking down to him, will win his trust. Since your child will need a regular doctor for many years, pick one that relates well to children and their parents.