How to Get to Know a Guy

Trying to get a know a guy better takes time. Every friendship or relationship starts out by the girl getting to know the guy better. Sometimes, a guy seems like he would be hard to get to know but, most guys will readily accept attention from girls.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

1. Talk to the guy you want to get to know. You have to really listen to what he says so that you can know how his mind works. Listen for clues about his likes and dislikes.
2. Get to know his friends. Focus on building friendships with them. Do this discreetly. One of the best ways to do this is to become friends with one his friend's girlfriends. As a bonus, you will have a reason to hang around his group of friends and him.
3. Learn about his hobbies. If he is into sports, for example, learn what you can about that sport so you can have an intelligent conversation with him about it. Make sure that you are up to date on any current events concerning his hobbies. If he has a lot of hobbies, focus on the one that he seems the most interested in.
4. Invite him out to do something that you both like to do. If you are nervous about this, consider asking some others to come too. It could be a group outing then.
5. Support him all of the time. He will notice your support and will probably think of you as one of his very supportive and close friends.