How to Pick up a Girl in a Club

The very nature of the club environment can make it difficult to form a connection with someone. The loud music, crowds and mood lights are all factors that could work against you. Take advantage of the club environment to pick up a girl by using this advice.

Instructions

1. Arrive at the club before it gets too crowded, come with your friends and pick a spot in the club where you can see everyone and get around easily.

2. Dance, buy drinks and talk with your friends until you see a girl you want to pick up. Notice her location and whether or not she's with a guy or a group of friends.

3. Looking in her direction try to make eye contact. Hold for a few seconds to show your interest and pay attention to her body language which can let you know to approach or retreat.

4. Wait for a few minutes then approach her by yourself. Be direct and introduce yourself, flirt and smile to indicate your attraction. Make her laugh by telling jokes, teasing and make fun of yourself to break the tension.

5. Start a casual conversation by asking questions and focusing on the girl. Engage her friends as well since their approval can count for a lot.

6. Build up the connection by asking her to dance or offering to buy her a drink.

7. Ask if the girl is interested in seeing you again. Exchange phone numbers, ask her on a date or invite her to leave the club with you for somewhere quieter so you can get to know each other better.

Tips & Warnings

• Going to a club on single night or ladies night offers more chances to pick up a girl.

• Pickup lines are unlikely to work but in some cases they can break the ice and make the girl laugh.

• Don't get drunk when trying to hit on a girl, you're likely to embarrass yourself and turn her off for good.

• Avoid staring at her body or making any inappropriate touches or suggestions which could make her feel threatened.