How to Score Points With Girls
So you want to score some points with a girl. Believe it or not, the things you have to do to impress a girl are pretty much free and not too painful. You may even find yourself enjoying the effort.
Instructions
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Say your please and thank yous be a gentleman to the hilt. The act of just saying please and thank you is a great way to score points with any girl. Look into her eyes when you talk with her and don't forget a nice little compliment. You can't go wrong with basic courtesies.
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Share something about yourself. It does not have to be your deepest darkest secret, but girls love it when they feel they are having an intimate conversation and that you are sharing something personal with them. Tell a story about when you were a kid, slid into home base and knocked heads with the catcher, or something that makes you appear human and a little vulnerable.
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Make her feel like you are really listening to her. Play the repeat game while in conversation. For example, she says, "I have always wanted to travel to Rome" and you could respond with, "I have never really traveled, but Rome does sound awesome." Picking up a word or two from what she is saying will let her know you are really in tune with the conversation.
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Pick up a little something to show you were thinking about her before you see her. A flower from the side of the road or her favorite candy or soda will work just fine. It's not about how much money you spend, it is about the thought behind the gift. In all actuality, the less you spend, the more she will probably like it.
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Show off a little, with either your brain or your brawn. Confidence is a really attractive quality in men and women love to see you show off your intelligence and/or muscles every once in awhile. Just be careful not to brag too much or get caught up in yourself. You want to impress her, not overwhelm her and appear too stuck on yourself.
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Tips & Warnings
When sharing something about yourself, stick to a funny, nostalgic or touching story. Stay away from stories about old girlfriends or ex-wives.