How to Deal With Enemies

There are some people in this world that make us really mad. Our enemies are usually the people who make us most mad with their comments, insults and gestures. It is not always easy to deal with your enemies.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Talk with your enemy in a calm manner. Ask him or her why they are upset with you or why they hate you. Do not get offended by what they say. If they start thrashing out at you, you should walk away and talk to them later when they are calm. The first step to dealing with your enemies is confronting them face to face.

2. Ignore their comments. They will make many nasty, mean comments about you and about anything associated with you such as your work, family or other friends. Just ignore them.

3. Get new friends who you like and who like you, also. There is no need to waste your valuable time with enemies. Make new friends and forget about the people who hate you. In the end, your friendship will be their loss, not yours because you will have more new friends.

4. Call the police. If they continue to harass you or get violent with you, do not return the favor. Simply get out of the situation, and call the police. They cannot legally harm you, so you should call the police if they threaten or assault you in any way.

5. Stay away. Avoid going places where you know they will be hanging out. Do not go around them. Go the opposite direction, if possible.

6. Apologize if the situation is your fault. Tell them that you are sorry, and that you want to make things better. Be sincere.

Tips & Warnings

• Be nice to your enemies. They hate it when you look happy.