How to Bond With Your Rescue Cat

By MissLee

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Adopting a rescue cat is one of the most rewarding animal experiences. Often these cats can have trust issues and are not instantly sociable. This does not have to be a negative or a chore. You can spend many a happy and satisfying hour bonding with your new kitty and gaining their trust. In this article you will learn how a little time and patience can bring great rewards for you and your new feline friend...

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

Step1
Set aside some quiet time with no distractions like TV or radio, just you and your new cat.
Make sure you choose to sit in your cat's favourite spot so that they feel safe and secure, even if this means you sitting on the floor!
Step2
Once you are settled try and softly call your cat over to you, tempt them with treats if they are food-driven.

This step may need to be repeated before your cat approaches you, just stay calm and relaxed and persevere until kitty starts to come and check you out.
Step3
Once your cat has started to warm to you it is a good idea to stroke them gently, discovering where they do and do not like to be touched. (Many cats are sensitive about their tummy being touched).
Once you have established contact that your cat enjoys you can start to groom them with the cat brush, this grooming is a real bonding exercise.
Step4
Make time to do this for an hour or so every day until your cat is totally comfortable in its new home.
Don't be surprised if once they start to bond with you they become like your shadow and follow you around the house!

Tips & Warnings

  • Stay calm
  • Keep trying - the rewards are massive
  • Catnip and toys may help persuade a younger cat to be friends!
  • Don't pressure your cat, if you try and force friendship on them it may set you back
  • Always let the cat come to you, if you approach him or her it may scare them
  • Never stare your cat down, they do not enjoy direct eye contact.

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on 8/12/2008 Great article. My latest feral, who I adopted when she was in labor, has taken almost 12 years to decide that I am her best friend. Just a little while ago she started to sleep in my room. And now she sleeps next to me on her own pillow. We've been comfortable together for years, but now she trusts me completely and even lets me pick her up sometimes and love on her.

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on 8/11/2008 Excellent tips!

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on 7/16/2008 Very good advice.

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on 4/9/2008 Remember to speak softly to a shy cat or kitten. They don't like loud noises or voices. I've tamed so many feral adult cats & kittens and all of your advice is good and yes, the rewards are so worth the time it takes to win over a feral or shy cat or kitten's trust.

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