Things You'll Need:
- courage
- someone to talk to
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Step 1
First when you suspect your husband is cheating on you want to make absolutely sure before you confront him. I would follow him or have a friend do it when you become suspicious. You could hire a private detective if money is no object.
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Step 2
OK, so you are certain that he is cheating you have your proof. Now you need to decide when is the appropriate time to confront him. To get the best outcome possible you do not want to bust up in a restaurant or bar and cause a big scene. Yes this might be satisfying but our plan is to confront him and keep him right!
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Step 3
Now we want to pinpoint the right time and place to confront them. Find their special meeting place such as a restaurant , bar , movies etc. Follow them out and confront them at the car when they get where they are going. This is important!! If they are going to a public place confront them outside the establishment. This way his ego is not swelling in front of a crowd. Only bad things will happen if he is put on the spot in front of a crowd. Same with if its at her place they go to. If you come parading beating on her door he will feel like he has to be protective of her.
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Step 4
That moment comes when you are face to face with them. Focus your attention to him, remember the mistress may not even know he is married. Do not start yelling this will only cause him to run or argue. The best advice I can give you is to express your feelings to him. Let him know that you are hurt. Ask why he did this. Remind him of some good times you have had.
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Step 5
After having the heart to heart walk away. If he comes after you that means he is sorry and still wants to be with you. If he gets mad for getting caught and wants to argue or you leave and he does not come after you well atleast you know where you stand.
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Step 6
After you confront him if he comes after you then go somewhere that its just the two of you. Remind him how hurt you are and that it will be a long time before you trust him again.
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Step 7
If he argues and get confrontational walk away. Have a friend that you feel comfortable opening up to help you through the process. Remember there is always someone better ( honest, faithful) out there just waiting to meet someone like you.
