how to face a cheating husband and the other woman without losing him may seem to some a huge dilemma and i couldn't agree more! But, it can be done. in my article i will go through a few steps toward getting the outcome you desire.
you'll need, patience, virtue, and a strong desire for your marriage to be transformed and to work for you both.
Step1
first of all you need to sit down with your husband in a comfortable atmosphere, like the home that you share. you need to gently, but firmly tell him you know that he is having an affair. you should tell him that dispite being deeply hurt and torn, you still love him and want to talk about working this out so that you can stay together. you must tell him how his has made you feel and get it all off your chest.
Step2
you should give him a chance to respond and explain how and why this happened, because you need to find out what has broken down in the marriage that made him want to resort to seeking out the affections of another woman. after he has done his share of speaking you could at that time make some suggestions on how you can mend your marriage, such as going to marriage counseling, or seeking the help of a clergyman.
Step3
love will find it's way.
after you have talked this situation out, a nice thing to do is plan a short trip together to get away, such as going away on a weekend to another city or merely going to some small random city or town, and rent a hotel together for some really nice R & R for you both, so you can rekindle that romance, talk, and sleep where nothing and noone can intrude!
Tips & Warnings
it is very important that he wants this to work this marriage out as well ladies. also communication and honesty are vital!
on 4/6/2008
This sounds like great advice..it may not work for everyone... some men do it for the sex i am sure so he may keep cheating.....But overall it sounds like a really great way to try and fix what you can:)
Comments
AshleyBerge said
on 4/6/2008 This sounds like great advice..it may not work for everyone... some men do it for the sex i am sure so he may keep cheating.....But overall it sounds like a really great way to try and fix what you can:)