How to have sex for the first time

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having sex for the first time is HARD. make sure both you and your partner are ready for sex, make sure neither of you have any STD's, and BE SAFE, unless you are trying for pregnancy!

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Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

partner
a condom
spermicide
a comfortable place
lubricant

Step1

ask your partner if they are ready, and make sure YOU are ready too! Undress each other, feel each others bodies over, get your bearings.

Step2

lay down or sit in a comfortable position on a soft surface. decide who is going to be on top, and who is going to be on the bottom. usually the more dominant person is on top.

Step3

decide: oral, vaginal, or anal.
Oral: you use your mouth to pleasure each other
Vaginal: the man inserts his penis into the woman's vagina, if the woman is petite, this may hurt. a vibrator or dildo may be used.
Anal: the man inserts his penis into the woman's anal opening, again, if the woman is small, this may be slightly painful.

Step4

if you would like the female to orgasm, a little more effort may be needed. everyone needs something different to orgasm. for some, pain is erotic, or the location of the G-spot may be needed.

Step5

you can add extra pleasure by role playing, fingering, or fantasies.