How to Face a Cheating Husband the Other Woman Without Losing Him

To answer the question I chose, it appears to me that he has already been lost. The question should be, how can I approach him about his unfaithfulness in such a way that I will be able to get him back?

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• Realize that he has wondered elsewhere for reasons he has justified and the possiblities as you already know are there for him to do this again which is why I suggest walking away.

1. The other woman is probably feeling the same way you are about giving him up. Your marriage was not with her, it was with him. Leave her out of this problem irregardless of who it is.
2. If you plan to try to win his heart again, before approaching him with "the news". I would definitely make some changes first. Such as, changes within yourself. Not necessarily changes that would please him, but changes that would please you. Right now this time is about healing yourself and taking care of yourself. Be able to see your good qualities and your faults and accept yourself as a whole person.
3. Detach yourself from him ONLY for the desire of your privacy so that you can see the benefits of taking stock of yourself. Be your own person. Step away from him long enough to enjoy life for what it is .... smell the roses and enjoy the miracle of life all for yourself.
4. Over a short period of time you will find yourself noticing your surroundings and yourself has kind of evolved into something unexpected and great changes will begin to happen. You may begin to wear your hair, makeup, clothes different. You may begin to loosen up and relax more, and make different choices. He may even come home and say "wow what's going on here?"
5. When the time comes for you to be ready to 'talk to him', you will want to ask him if he is happy in the marriage so far. You will want to ask him if there are directions that he expected to see you two go in instead of where you did go in life so far. (This is where you will begin to learn the areas that discouraged him from staying.) Remember: These things wouldn't be your fault, the wrong choice was made when he went astray justifying it in his mind instead of just working through the problems you too were having.
6. Be able to take constructive criticism as long as it is offered in a loving manner. He will need to express any feelings he has whether he's interested in fixing them or not. This is your time to listen and gather the goods.
7. This talk could last days or weeks. There has to be an equal balance for it to work. If after all is said and done and whether problems are worked out or not, this is where you will need to ask yourself .... has these main problems minimized to the point where I can safely say he is going to walk away from this other woman and spend the rest of his life with me and grow with me? Can I live happily with these changes? Or have we achieved nothing?
8. Only you will be able to answer this .... just keep in mind that there are approximately 3.3 Billion other men on the planet.

Tips & Warnings

• There are always marriage counselors.