How to catch a Cheating Boyfriend

If you are a woman, and have been with more than one man, there is a good chance that you have experienced the heartbreak of infidelity. As the old adage goes, “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”. That phrase is so true. Here, I will give you advice on how to gather solid proof that your man is a cheater.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• Computer
• Cell phone
• Resolve

1. If you are reading this, then you already have suspicions and that increases the likelihood of truth in your assumptions. Many women who are in relationships do not want to believe that their man could stray. This may cause denial. We don’t actually want to know the truth because it would force us to make a decision that we really don’t want to make: Whether to stay or to go.
2. There are many things that would lead a woman to suspect her boyfriend is unfaithful. One of those would be that he isn’t as affectionate with her as he once was. Another would be if he isn’t making time for her. These are usually the first precursors to the discovery of infidelity.
3. The more obvious signs are; glitter on his face (many strippers wear body glitter), faint smell of perfume on his clothes, staying out late, accusing you of being unfaithful (in his mind, if he is accusing you of being unfaithful, it will distract you from his own carousing), keeping close tabs on his cell phone, and frequent showering.
4. These are all signs that I picked up on when my mate was cheating. I wish I had known about these signs early enough to put my own plan into action, however. That is why I am compiling them here, so that I may give other scorned women a chance to regain some dignity.
5. BEFREIND THE ENEMY
   
   Many times, when your mate is cheating, it is with someone you know or maybe even someone you consider a friend. If your man suddenly begins acting indifferent to one of your friends when they are both in your presence and they were previously cordial to one another, ask yourself “what’s going on?”, then get to the bottom of it.
6. Here are some ideas for getting real evidence. One of the biggest reasons men cheat is to have excitement in their lives. So, why don’t you give him what he’s looking for? You need to be extremely sneaky, though. It will require you to have very strong resolve. This is because, even when you discover some rotten deed he has done to try and cover up his indiscretion, you must keep it to yourself and do not let on like you know. Remember, he is probably already feeling guilty and guilt produces a degree of paranoia. He will already be looking for signs that you know. The more you act like things nothing's wrong, the less he will assume you are snooping or aware of what’s going on. This will make your job that much easier.
7. If there is “another woman” that you suspect, but you do not know her personally, try to get to know her. Find a way to make friends with her, or better yet, one of her friends. Her friend probably won’t know who you are and won’t make the connection. You could gain valuable insight to what’s really going on.
8. If you are the type of woman who loves to see your man squirm when he’s in hot water, then you might want to try this technique; be very nonchalant with him. Do not show any concern for him being gone so much. Do not complain that you are never intimate anymore. Make him wonder if you are the one doing the cheating.
9. Here’s what I did when I caught my man cheating. I knew what the girl looked like because I had seen her around. I cracked the security code on his cell phone and got her number. I know, you are thinking I called and confronted her, WRONG. I had a good notion that he hadn’t told her about me, since we had a four year old daughter and I was pregnant. I was right, but, I went along with his story he had convinced her was true. He had told her that yes we had a daughter together, but we weren’t together. He didn’t mention me being pregnant. He told her that he just let us live with him until I could get on my feet. HAHAHAHA. It was my apartment and my car and ……..well, you get the picture. As mad and humored as I was, I wasn’t about to let on to her. I strung her along, letting her believe that I was “just a friend”. You wouldn’t believe what details she let go. She told me about everything. I almost wanted to tell her to stop, but I needed to know. I gained a sort of satisfaction from it.
10. I could go on and on about different ways to catch your man in the act, but honestly, the important thing is to prove to yourself that what you’re sensing is real, understanding that you don’t deserve it and deciding, once and for all, to get on with your life…………without him.
    
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