How to Face a Cheating Husband the Other Woman Without Losing Him

By ChristineLee

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Have you found out that your husband is cheating on you? Do you want to confront him but you're scared that you'll lose him? This is a situation that many people are confronted with. It's hard to know what to do, what to say, how to act and whether or not to try to save the relationship.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • Patience
  • Understanding
  • Self-Control

Step1
First you need to take time to think about everything. First off, are you positive that your husband is cheating on you? Just because he misses a call or two doesn't necessarily mean that he's out with another woman. Take a good look at the entire situation before you make a judgment. Accusing your husband of cheating when he's not can be detrimental to the relationship.
Step2
Don't overreact. Being cheated on is a horrible thing but will calling names, throwing things and causing a huge fight really make everything better? It might make you feel better for a moment but, in the end, it will have caused even more problems than you initially had.
Step3
Calmly confront your husband. You might be tempted to go after the other woman but, unless you know her, that shouldn't be the way you go about things. Tell your husband about the things you've noticed (i.e. him staying out late, him not answering his phone) and see if he has an explanation for this. Tell him that you feel uncomfortable and think there may be something going on. Make sure you do it in a nice way. Be stern but there's no need to yell, scream and tell him you hate him. Explain to him that you want this relationship to work but that'll never happen if he can't be more honest with you.

Tips & Warnings

  • If your husband decides that he doesn't want to come clean then you can know that you're better off without him. It might hurt at first but you'll be so much better off in the long run.

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on 5/1/2008 ummm things you'll need: to grow some stones and tell him to get lost. and quick.

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on 4/19/2008 I say kick his --- to the Curve! usally if there is 1 theres another....and thats just nasty.

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