Things You'll Need:
- a vibrator
- a sexually active imagination
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Step 1
Firstly, make sure that your vibrator is getting warmed up. Nothing is more annoying than a cold gadget against your ****oris so wrap the vibrator in warm cloth or put it under a pillow so it’s not too cold when you finally use it.
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Step 2
Get yourself sexually aroused a bit. Many women feel that vibrators are still ‘gadgets’ and thus they find that simply subjecting their genitalia to it does not bring any sexual satisfaction. So, firstly, find a nice place where you can be alone for some time. Put on some sensual music or light some candles. Go through some adult-rated magazine or book. You can even watch an adult-rated video first.
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Step 3
Once you’re sexually stimulated, lie on your back, preferably, on big, comfortable cushions. Reach for your vibrator. Turn it on and touch it to various parts of your body like the sides of your face, on your breasts, inner thighs, and others.
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Step 4
Bring the vibrator towards your womanhood. Run it up and down your labia. Just relax and enjoy the vibrations on it.
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Step 5
Slide the vibrator up and bring it to your ****oris. Experiment with the speed and pressure with which you want to subject your ****oris to it. For many women, this is it! With the right angle, pressure and duration, they can already reach an orgasm using a vibrator. For those who want more… go to the next step.
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Step 6
If your vibrator is insertable, then try and put it in your womanhood slowly. Some women experience intense orgasms feeling this vibration in their vagina. Don’t be weary if you don’t feel this… yet. Some women simply take longer to respond to this stimulation or this is just not what turns them on. If you’re like this, just move on to the next step.
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Step 7
If your vibrator has a small node on the side, then use this and angle it on your ****oris. This way, you’re stimulated inside and out! Still not going anywhere? Go to the next step.
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Step 8
Maneuver the vibrator so that it hits your G-spot. Once you find this area (and don’t get frustrated if you don’t!) simply hold the vibrator steady while it pulsates against your G spot. Pretty soon, you’ll be pulsating yourself.
Comments
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adrugay said
on 8/7/2008 Good tips, particularly #1! Warming lubricant can help, too.
kitty42 said
on 5/18/2008 This was a great article I just bought my first vibrator and I wanted to use so it will give me a plesureable sensation I would not forget and you helped me create that sensation so thanks.
smeelink13 said
on 4/13/2008 GREAT ARTICLE!!!! one question though, how can I do this without a vibrator? Right now im using a crayola marker, but its just not doin the trick... any help?