How to Get Proof that Your Man is Cheating for Divorce Court

Well if you've read my article on how to tell if your man is cheating, you may now be on to where you need the proof. Sometimes we need proof for divorce court, sometimes just to show him we know for sure, and sometimes simply for closure. What ever the reason, here is how to get the proof!

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• a computer
• a camera
• borrowing a friends car
• sunglasses
• a cell phone
• patience

1. First of all, whatever you do, don't confront your man until you have proof. He will deny it, and if he is in fact cheating, he will cover his tracks even more carefully.
2. Second, remember to use todays technology to YOUR advantage. Chances are, he has, so you need to also. Download a keystroke logger. It will log every single keystroke your man makes on the computer. His passwords, chat, email, bank info. You can download this at freedownloadmanager.org
3. Now buy a cheap caller ID and place it on a phone jack not being used hidden. If no phone jack is available, hire an independent phone company to install one when your man isnt home behind a bed. Now compare the phone numbers on that caller ID to the ones on your visible ID. Any missing numbers are a BIG clue.
4. If you do come across a number, call it. I dont care what your man says. "If you trust me you dont need to check up on me." Guess what, if he has nothing to hide, he will think you're being silly, but if he gets defensive, BIG RED FLAG. Try to call any number you find when he is not around. If you dont want to flat out ask the woman that answers if she is sleeping with your man say something like "This is Mrs. Smith, Mikes wife, I'm trying to reach Jacobson Law firm, is this the right number?" If it is his girlfriend, he will call you immediatly asking what you are talking about. When he does act nonchalont and say something like, oh I just saw the number on the caller ID and I thought it was one of those stupid telemarketers so I wanted to scare them.
5. Lastly if it comes to this, borrow a friends car and follow him. You will need someone elses car and wear sunglasses. Try to follow him from work if possible. Good luck!

Tips & Warnings

• you can also purchase a phone recorder that will record every conversation
• keep in mind however most cheaters use the cell phone
• obtain cell phone records as quickly as possible.