Things You'll Need:
- yourself
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Step 1
You need to have yourself, you should be clean and well groomed to start. You need to smile. A smile has several meanings. Let's face it, we are not attracted to someone that looks grumpy. We are more able to attract someone if we show them that we may be interested with a smile.
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Step 2
People like people that like them, as long as they are not obsessed. So, be confident, smile allot, and be interested in what the other person is saying. By doing this, you are flattering them, and learning allot. After you show interest in what they are saying, they will then become more interested in you. You must listen, and compliment them, just don't be phony, and do not over do it.
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Step 3
We like people that we can share interests with. Your first impression on someone will be a very strong one. Within the first few seconds of meeting someone a decision is made- do I like this person? Are they attractive? Believe it or not the person you are approaching for the first time knows within seconds if you are the lover type for them, the friend type, a relationship type, or what ever. So, when you are meeting someone, it is best if you mimic their body language for the first 10 seconds. Yes, stand how they stand for the first 10 seconds. If you use all of this, it will be a great benefit for you. You will attract more people, and learn allot about them. This article is not very long, because I am not going to waste time putting the "how it works" in. If you do it, you will notice allot of difference in your dating, or your social life, what ever it is that you are trying to improve.
Comments
chrisanimelo444 said
on 7/26/2009 Interesting article. Thanks for the info.