How to Have Fun With Your Husband

Still a newlywed myself, I'm amazed at the number of people who bid me "good luck" or, even more puzzling, offer their condolences. Marriage is not a life sentence but a loving partnership. We should look forward to each day we can share with our spouses. Here are some ways to keep the sparks alive.

Instructions

1. Make time for each other every day. Even if it's just over a cup of coffee, a long-distance phone call, a walk, a catnap together, a board game or a quick shower. One-on-one time is key in a marriage. Make it a priority in your daily life.

2. Throw dinner parties for yourselves and cook the meals together. Set the table elegantly, use candles and play your favorite music. Make it a special occasion and enjoy each other's company.

3. Schedule a date night weekly or biweekly, especially once you've had children. Time alone is important. Catch a movie, go out to dinner or find a local wine tasting. Look into local events, visit museums and local historical sites.

4. Work on house projects together. Paint or remodel a room in your house or apartment, grow a vegetable garden, make repairs or refinish your furniture. You will enjoy accomplishing tasks together and your home will reap the benefits.

5. Surprise each other. Buy little gifts or cards or flowers for no reason. Pack a picnic lunch, plan field trips, write a love letter or make breakfast in bed for your spouse.

6. Spend time with your spouse, regardless of the activity. Take time to talk every day, learn each other's favorites, create your own traditions - you have a lifetime to enjoy each other's company. Take advantage.