How to Turn a Female Friend Into a Girlfriend


Turning a girl friend into a girlfriend requires more work than turning a random girl into a girlfriend. In order for a girl to think of you as more than a friend, you must become the type of guy she wants to date.

  • Cut off constant contact with your girl friend. Part of the reason a girl sees a guy as a friend is because he is always there when she needs him. Reduce the amount of time you talk to her on the phone, see her at home, email her and instant message her.

  • Flirt casually with her when you see her. Compliment her on her eyes, smile, laugh and clothes. Make a point to touch her arm, hand, shoulder, knee or face when talking with her and hanging out.

  • Stay true to your personality while you are trying to impress her and get her out of the friend zone. Changing your personality will backfire in the end, once you go back to your old self.

  • Pay more attention to your wardrobe and cleanliness. It's easy to get comfortable around a friend and wear sweats, or hug them when you haven't showered in a couple days, but you'll impress her more by looking and smelling good.

  • Disappear for a while and date other girls. You must stop being the go-to guy when she wants to talk or hang out. Plus this shows her that your world doesn't revolve around her, and that there are other girls interested in you.

  • Talk to her and tell her how you feel, if none of your subtle efforts work. The worse that can happen is that she'll respond in a way that lets you know she'll never consider you boyfriend material, and you can either continue the friendship or walk away.

Tips & Warnings

  • Don't become friends with benefits, because you take away the mystery of what it would be like to be with you. If you truly want a relationship with a girl friend, avoid an intimate relationship until she's your girlfriend.
  • Don't push too hard. Avoid telling your girl friend that you love her or have been in love with her for a long time. This will make her uncomfortable, if she doesn't feel the same.
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