How to Deal With Mom

Sometimes it's not easy dealing with your mom. She may seem overbearing or sometimes just plain crazy. It's always good to have a strong relationship with your mother, so you should learn the best way to deal with her.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Agree to disagree. Some battles you just can't win. You may butt heads over your choice in clothes, jobs or men. Instead of dragging out the fight, just retreat and accept that she's not likely to see things your way.

2. Make time for her. Moms often become overbearing because they feel threatened when you start to show signs of independence. Arrange a day to hang out each week, so she backs off a little.

3. Help out. You can improve your relationship with your mom if you offer to help her out with her chores and errands. If she seems frazzled, volunteer to walk the dog, drop off the dry cleaning, or empty the dishwasher.

4. Go to your dad. If you're having a problem with your mom, you may want to talk to your dad about it. He can act as a go between and help resolve the conflict.

5. Give each other some space. If you seem to disagree on everything, you may just want to deal with mom by avoiding each other. If you can't find common ground, you shouldn't stress everyone out by constantly fighting.

Tips & Warnings

• Never say mean things to your mom in the heat of the moment. She'll likely have a hard time getting over the altercation.
• Don't forget any holidays or special occasions. Take the time to get her nice birthday and Mother's Day presents.